sorry for days late response... @jaen: all words are made up. exactly all of them. that's what words are. zero of them came from on high. the words you used to suggest otherwise are all words in common usage, which is why they were added to the dictionaries you mentioned, so i have no idea what that was meant to prove. suggesting that men cannot or do not sexually harass other men, as crocket did, assumes heterosexuality. that's a normative claim about heterosexuality. that's what heteronormative means. if someone is suggesting, as crocket did, that language in the code of conduct should be tailored to a worldview in which men cannot or do not sexually harass other men, that suggestion is wrong and should be challenged.