I have rewritten the "short list of things to not do" section in our https://docs.google.com/document/d/1TgExchcIyWd4BH9qwb4vjp7uaBjWyBtPWEkGqSfvlTk/, feel free to react here. The major change is to clarify that criticism and negative feedback is OK. This is not a reaction or response to anything, nothing has happened to provoke this, I was simply unsatisfied with the first version