anyone successfully use relay with clojurescript? would you recommended it? any examples / advice?

I guess using re-graph should work fine. You probably want some functions specific for relay, for pagination and stuff. It's just a specific flavour of GraphQL, so I don't see why this would not work.

well relay requires a babel plugin and its own compiler, so a bit more complicated. i did find this react-relay package (https://github.com/cljsjs/packages/tree/master/react-relay), was wondering if anyone had experience with it